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Sunday, December 27th, 2009

A week before Christmas we had a highly unusual snowfall, almost 2′.  To get that amount all at once is fairly rare out here; to get it before Christmas is almost unheard of.  Not that it wasn’t pretty, it’s just not that much fun to deal with.

Wellfleet's December blizzard

Wellfleet's December blizzard

Ok, that doesn’t look so bad does it?  Nah.  But you can’t really tell from the photo just how much of the white stuff is on the ground.

This might give you a better idea:

The courtyard behind the house after the blizzard

The courtyard behind the house after the blizzard

Are ya gettin’ the idea?  The cold weather stuck around for almost a week, and so did the snow.  Temperatures did finally start to creep back up above freezing on Thursday and we had highs in the low 40’s & 50’s for three days, so it’s pretty much gone now.  It did make for a white Christmas, the first one in the ten years I’ve lived here, so that’s good.

Speaking of Christmas, I hope everyone had a good one.  A good friend invited me over to her house for Christmas dinner with family & friends, which was lovely.  I made a chocolate-orange poundcake to bring, a recipe that could use a little more tweaking but was still pretty darned good.  I also made sparkling cranberries.  Those were just on a whim, a friend had sent a link to the recipe, they looked gorgeous & easy plus I had fresh cranberries in my refrigerator.  I’ve gotta tell you, they were really good.  Here’s a picture:

Sparkling Cranberries

Sparkling Cranberries

Can you imagine a more perfect addition to a holiday table?  The best part is they can accompany food or just be eaten as a snack.  They are kind of addictive, though, so watch out!

Guest-wise, things have been fairly quiet around here.  Thanksgiving was busy followed by a totally dead weekend, then I had a stretch of about 8 days where there were guests every night and then nothing the following weekend.  That’s not so unusual, though.  The period between the holidays is often one of the slowest of the year and I’m fine with that.  I have a few guests this week and then we’ll see what the final holiday weekend of the year brings.

Here’s wishing everyone a happy, healthy and safe New Year.  See you in 2010!

Two Good Things

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

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I almost always have guests on President’s Day weekend, although it may only be two or three rooms. This year for some reason the stars seem to have aligned and deposited Valentine’s Day on the Saturday of the long weekend. As a result, I have a full house for two nights. Woo hoo! I also have a couple of rooms booked for Sunday night, which is a bonus since not everyone gets President’s Day off. Most of the reservations were last minute, all but one came in a week or less before the weekend began. That’s not unusual for winter reservations; people wait for the weather forecast before deciding to drive anywhere.
Edit: I spoke too soon… my one guest coming for a single Saturday just cancelled. Anyone want a last-minute room for tonight?
Edit part 2: Someone called hoping for a room tonight. They got one. The “No Vacancy” sign is back up and all is right with the world.

There’s a couple that has stayed here several days to a week every summer for about five years. They didn’t stay last summer and I actually did notice their absence. He called a couple of weeks ago to reserve a room for this summer and I asked him about last year, he told me they’d taken a special trip for a big birthday and hadn’t had enough vacation time left to allow for a trip to Wellfleet. He seemed pleased to have been missed. This summer he and his wife want to stay for two weeks! Typically I request a 50% deposit to guarantee the reservation, but since this was going to be a fairly big number and because I know some people are struggling, I offered to break up the deposit into two payments for him. He replied that there was no need; when the stock market began to fall he’d liquidated some investment he’d had and that he could think of no better place to put his money than at The Stone Lion Inn.

Most of the time I like what I do. Sometimes, I love it.

Breaking the News

Tuesday, January 13th, 2009

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Now that the holidays have passed and apparently despite the economy, people are beginning to think about summer travel plans. Among those people are some of our repeat guests, particularly the ones who come every year. They are the ones who know they need to reserve early in order to get the dates and/or room they want. Because we have established something very close to a friendship with these frequent repeat guests, every one of them, in their call or email, asks me how I am and then asks about Adam. As difficult as it is, I’d rather tell them up front about the split than skirt the issue and have to deal with it during their stay, possibly in front of other guests. Adam has been a strong and constant presence here, making breakfast at least two days a week and interacting with guests. They like him every bit as much as they like me. His absence, and his skill as a storyteller, will not go unnoticed.
It’s an awkward thing, telling people about the divorce. I’ve almost gotten good at saying the words, but I’ve had some practice and time to get used to the idea. For someone just hearing it I think it’s harder. I frequently hear “I don’t know what to say.” That makes me sad, but it’s honest and I appreciate that. Several people have told me they’ve been through it themselves, which is surprisingly reassuring. I see them with their current spouse and I see how devoted they are to that person and it gives me hope for a future relationship. Not that I’m wallowing in sorrow or actively searching for anyone new in my life, but is good to see that happiness with another person can be achieved. That is something I will never get tired of.
One of my absolute favorite couples arrived for a stay about a week after Adam moved out. When they arrived, my assistant Nancy was covering check-ins and I was at my weekly riding lesson. By the time I got back, the husband had dropped his wife off at the seminar she was attending, so I knocked on their room door to at least greet him in person. The third sentence out of his mouth was “And where is Adam?” Ouch. I knew it was coming, but this was the first time I’d had to actually do this.
“He’s not living here anymore” I told him, and I was literally choking back tears. Adam & I both love this couple, we even exchange gifts with them. And then he told me the oddest thing.
“Ah,” he said. “I had a dream the other night that we got here and Adam wasn’t here.”
I was speechless. Fortunately, he was not. And he broke the news to his wife, who I didn’t see until the next morning. They were very supportive. I knew they also wanted to see Adam and I knew that Adam was going to feel uncomfortable about seeing people after they were told what was going on, but I did make sure he came to see them before they left and I think all three of them were happy that I did. But that doesn’t change the fact that it’s awkward all the way around and it will continue to be so for a while.

Challenging

Sunday, December 14th, 2008

I have a guest here who appears to have an extreme case of homophobia. Wouldn’t even consider going to Provincetown where, unlike Wellfleet at the moment, there are good restaurants (the topic of restaurant closings is a whole other post). If there is one thing I can’t tolerate, it’s intolerance – whether it be racial, sexual, social or anything else. This is going to be a long two days of tongue-biting for me in order not to get into an argument with the guest.

I’m resisting the urge to call several of my gay friends and invite them to have breakfast here on Tuesday. It would be fun, though.

Wildlife

Wednesday, October 29th, 2008

I thought I’d share two marvelous photos taken earlier this month. The first was taken at the Wellfleet Bay Audubon Sanctuary by a guest staying with us. stag

Isn’t he pretty? The guest, who is from the UK where white tail deer are not found, was thrilled to have seen him and to have gotten this photo.

The next photo was taken by a guest who stays with us on a somewhat regular basis. Thank you, Tom*, for sharing this photo of river otters at Gull Pond.

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*This photo is by Tom Baratz. Please do not use it without permission.

Change of Season, Season of Change

Sunday, August 31st, 2008

It’s hard to believe it’s Labor Day already. Another summer, gone. Not that I expect business to slow down much, but the pace of life usually does after this weekend.

This summer has both flown and dragged by. The inn, and I, are going through some transitions. My husband and partner, Adam, and I are getting divorced. He will be moving out some time in October. That means I will need to find help to do some of the things Adam has done here over the years and to that end I have hired and am training an assistant innkeeper. She will take over the two breakfast shifts per week that Adam has been doing and cover check ins some afternoons so I can get out and do the shopping, another of Adam’s jobs, and take care of any personal appointments. So that’s one piece of the puzzle. There are many others I’m still figuring out.

Although I am sad and sometimes terrified, I do see the possibilities for positive change in all this. For one thing, I have someone to whom I can delegate certain things. Adam was a partner and would not have been a good choice to delegate some of my projects to, since he considered them my projects. Already Nancy has helped me with two small things that I have been wanting to get done but have been unable to motivate myself to do, even though I had everything I needed to do them. And over the winter I’ll have her work with me to improve organization in my kitchen and office.

Adam and I have made every effort to keep this all behind the scenes. We’re much more sad than angry about the whole thing and we want our guests to have the relaxing vacation they came here for. So far, from the comments in our guest book, we seem to have been successful. I hope arriving guests who read this don’t get weirded out by it. The plan is to continue to provide the hospitality we’ve become known for.

I’m more concerned about the guests who have been here before, some of whom come every year. It will be difficult telling them, but I suppose it’ll get easier with practice. Wish me luck.

Should Have Done it Long Ago

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

I know it’s been a while since my last post. We’ve been insanely busy and somehow August seems to have nearly slipped by already. It’s been a good year for business but I’ll admit to being tired. Although we remain busy into the middle of October, the pace of life slows down somewhat after Labor Day and I look forward to that.

One of the difficult parts about summer is that although the ringing phone means business, it also means frustration. The majority of the phone calls in July, August and September are for dates that are already booked. In particular as each weekend approaches there are numerous phone calls from people seeking rooms for Friday and Saturday night. It’s no fun for them and no fun for us to have to tell them we’re booked. And frequently the caller wants to know if we can suggest another place. We usually can’t. As summer wears on and I get more tired, the impulse to be less than my usual polite, helpful self with the callers gets stronger. No good can come of that!

This past week I added an on-line availability calendar to my website. I had my website designer make the link into nice, big buttons that are easy to find. They very wisely put the link on both the rooms and the reservations pages. The result was almost instantaneous. The phone has almost stopped ringing. When it does ring, it’s much more often someone looking at nights we do have or it’s someone who’s already in town who wants a room for tonight. I can’t help the latter, but at least I’ve got a fair shot at helping the former. What a relief.

I think I’ll now be able to survive the next two months with my sanity intact.

I’m Surrounded…

Friday, August 1st, 2008

by pregnant women. Three of our five female guests this weekend are between five and six months pregnant. That has NEVER happened before. We’ve had lots of pregnant guests over the years, but only one at a time (that we knew of).

I hope it’s not contagious.

Puzzling

Saturday, July 19th, 2008

A car pulled into my driveway and all the way around to the back of the property today around 1:30. It turned out to be a couple who will be staying with us starting in two days. They wanted to see where they were staying. The room was occupied and I was in a bit of a hurry, so I hope I wasn’t too abrupt when I excused myself.

They caught me off-guard and at a bad moment, but it was a bit strange. I’ve had lots of people stop by wanting to see the place for future reference, but never before someone who is already booked here and due to arrive in just a couple of days. I got the impression they had a bunch of questions, I wish I’d had the time to find out if they had any concerns or if they were really just looking around.

The Psychology of Muffins

Monday, April 21st, 2008

I make really good muffins. I’m not bragging, it’s just fact. And it’s my job, or part of it. Granted I still haven’t figured out how to get them to reliably dome on top, but they taste really, really good. They’re made from scratch with real butter from recipes I’ve adapted or developed.

About a year ago I tried an experiment with my banana coconut muffins. The recipe calls for two cups of all-purpose flour, I replaced one cup with a cup of whole-wheat flour to add some fiber/nutrition to the mix. There was no change in taste or texture, so I deemed the experiment a success and have continued to make them that way. It wasn’t something I mentioned to guests, I just did it.

One morning last fall, after watching several guests look at the muffins on the buffet and pass them by, I spoke up. “These muffins are made with whole-wheat flour” I said. Immediately two or three of my guests got up and got muffins, which they proceeded to inhale enjoy. Interesting. I had thought a lot of my guests pretty much left their diets at home and ate what they wanted on vacation, but clearly the desire to eat healthy will stop some from enjoying a treat unless they think there might be some nutritional value to it. Since I was making them with the whole wheat flour anyway, I’ve started letting guests know. Muffin consumption has definitely increased. This morning, seven guests ate ten peach muffins.

For anyone wanting to make this substitution, whole wheat flour is darker than all-purpose so if there’s already something in the batter that makes it dark, like bananas or mashed peaches, it works fine. I wouldn’t add it into my blueberry muffins, which are white except for the berries (and I like them that way), but if you don’t care about the color then go right ahead.

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